EXTREMELY
IMPORTANT: DO study the fiqh of Hajj & Umrah before you go, well in
advance. (I mean
really advanced,
not the weeks before it'll be so hectic you won't be able to do it at your
leisure.
Think 2-3 months
in advance.) Get some good books, tapes and videos. Look online and print
everything out.
Write all the Duas out on index cards. Try to memorize as many as you can
BEFORE
you go. Make flash
cards whatever it takes!
DO NOT go there
and expect to learn how to do everything from your guides/ppl with you.
This is too
important not
to know for yourself. Remember if you do anything incorrect your umrah
or hajj WILL
NOT BE ACCEPTED.
There are many stories of the tour people taking people to do things too
early or
too late. Also,
the crowd there is so enormous it is incredibly difficult when millions
of people are all
trying to do the
same thing at the same time. This is where your fiqh of hajj knowledge
comes in. It
makes it much
easier if you know things like you can pray your 2 rakats of Maqam Ibrahim
all the way
back in the Haram,
or on the different levels or even anywhere in the Haram, or that you can
do your
Saiyy on the secod
level or that you can throw your stones from after sunrise to anytime at
night. If
you know things
like this you can avoid the crowds of people who will try to stick to only
one thing
because they don't
know what else is allowed. Also if something happens you will know what
you
should do to compensate
for it and you may save your hajj or umrah.
A NOTE about all
the books and info. Everyone will tell you something a little different.
Try to piece
everything together
so that you at least know what the required conditions you must fulfill
are and
what things would
break your hajj or umrah absolutely or what things will necessitate compensation.
Ask your Imam
or local knowledgable people to help you understand the Fiqh and answer
any questions
you have.
Also VERY IMPORTANT:
Learn the fiqh of praying a Janaza (funeral prayer). You will be doing
it after
every single prayer,
no joke. (There was only one prayer in our entire 2 week stay that we didn't.)
Learn the dua
for it too. Praying at someone's janaza is a very good thing and you have
ample
opportunity of
participating so take them. Also learn the different ways to send Salams
on the prophet
(saw) for the
time you are in Madina. Another good suggestion is to draw a chart of the
Kaaba
(looking from
above) and along each of it's walls (and along each of the special points),
write the
relevant duas.
The best times
to visit the Haram of Makkah, do tawaf and saiyy, ibadah and to try to
touch the black
stone etc is from
1AM until Fajr and from about an hour after Fajr until 9 or so. A good
schedule would
be to sleep from
Fajr until Dhuhr, pray Dhuhr in the Haram then go back to the hotel and
eat and rest.
(After Dhuhr about
noon to 2 it is HOT.) Go back for Asr. Then go back for Maghrib and STAY
there for
Isha/Taraweeh.
After you can take a few hours to go shopping if needed. Otherwise stay
at the
haram, alternating
doing different things like Tawaf, reading Quran, praying until Qiyam which
is about
1AMish Then stay
until Tahajjud which is about an hour before Fajr. Then stay for Fajr.
If you are
going to Ziyara
or doing multiple Umrahs and can't sleep after Fajr, take a few hours at
night before
Fajr to sleep.
(You might say to yourself.. gee doesn't look like there is any time for
sleep there!
That's true..
don't waste your time sleeping.. you can always sleep when you come home
:) But know
when your body
is tired and can't take it anymore. Don't make yourself sick. Naps of 3-4
hours worked
for me.)The best
spots in the Haram are right in front of the Kaaba on the marble surrounding
it or on
the second level
at the front. If you want to be on the haram floor you have to go early
and stake out
a spot. Sisters
should head towards the Zamzam area and sit right near there, otherwise
you'll get
kicked out of
any other area after awhile. A really good spot I found for sisters is
upstairs all the way
in the front of
the sisters section. You have an incredible birds-eye view of the entire
haram and can
still pray witht
he Kaaba in sight. Remember to bring your prayer rug to sit on. This is
so that people
don't come and
sit right in front of you or back of you so you'll have room to pray later.
Two things
that I wish I
knew before hand about this.You can pray anywhere in the Haram without
a sutrah ie
people can walk
in front of you without breaking your prayer. (This was extremely annoying
to me at
the beginning
when people would walk right through my sutrah every time!) (But you should
try your
best not to do
this to others). And you can also look at the Kaaba while you pray in the
Haram.
PREPARE yourself
mentally for alot of frustration, mental anguish, annoyance and anger.
To obtain a
Hajj Mabrur (one
that is accepted and forgives all your sins) you must not let these things
interfere
with your goal.
PREPARE yourself
physically for alot of walking and physical exercise. You may be walking
back and
forth from your
hotel to the Haram at least 10 times a day, not to mention logging Tawafs
and Sai'ys
that come out
to miles in the end.
DO NOT bring alot
of clothes. All you need really is 3-4 jilbabs - mostly black for umrah
time (lighter
colors for hajj
and summer season) and a few clothes underneath that you can mix and match.
Bring
enough socks and
underthings. You can always wash clothes if you have to. But bringing alot
of
clothes just wastes
your time and suitcase room. A regular travelling rule of thumb is to never
pack
more than you
can carry for a trip!
It goes without
saying that you should bring some comfy shoes/sneakers for when you go
on Ziyara or
shopping. Also
bring some good chappals/shibshib for when you are going to the haram.
Don't overpack
your suitcase.
You won't be able to get it all back home especially if you buy things.
You can always
give away some
of your clothes/shoes while there or try this well-known travelling tip:
bring an extra
empty suitcase/bag
with you or buy one there.
A NOTE for Madina.
The weather there is very different from Makkah. Madina is much cooler.
We were
in 80-90 degrees
everyday in Makkah and then in Madina we were at 60-70s and it was extremely
COLD around Fajr,
so bring a sweatshirt/sweater and a few warm clothes so you don't get sick.
DO NOT bother bringing
anything expensive, like jewelry or electronic equipment. If it's lost
or stolen
you'll never see
it again.
DO NOT change money
before you go. There are tons of exchanges there that you can go to on
the
streets and you'll
get a better rate than the usual bank rate too. Bring enough cash for what
you want
to buy. Don't
rely on using your credit card. There are finance charges of at least 2-3%
and the
exchange rate
of Visa sux.
DO bring alot of
medicine - Tylenol, asprin, Theraflu, Tums, Pepto Bismol, Midol, Chapstick/Vaseline.
Believe me you'll
be glad you did and if by some miracle you don't get sick other people
in your group
will.
DO bring some snack
food like granola bars, goldfish, dried fruit. You'll be glad when your
stomach
starts doing loops
or you are starving in the haram. Not to mention sometimes getting stuck
for hours
on a bus during
heavy traffic or waiting for clearance.
DO bring a cheap
plastic bag/canvas bag to put your shoes and janamaz (prayer rug) and quran
in
when you go into
the haram.
Don't bring a janamaz
from home. Just buy a nice one there. You can also bring a small bag/purse
you
can wear under
your jilbab for your money/passport. Don't bother with big handbags- you'll
get
searched every
time you enter the haram and will have to watch it all the time.
DO NOT waste your
time shopping. You're only in Makkah once in your life (anything could
happen and
due to life circumstances,
being busy, illness etc you may never return again).
Make a list of
what gifts you have to give to whom beforehand and write down what you
need to buy
and quantities.
That way you won't waste alot of time trying to decide what to get for
who.
Some common gifts
include:
Dates (yes they have chocolate covered dates :))
Zamzam water
Tasbeeh Beads
Hijabs & Jilbabs
Prayer Rugs (called sajadahs there)
Jewelry (gold, fake and everything in between)
Metal work (tea sets etc)
Incense Perfumes & Perfume bottles
Thobes
Kufis
Cards
Desi (IndoPak) dresses
Books
Watches
DO NOT bother going
any malls. They're usually WAY too expensive, but if you want to waste
your
time window shopping
or looking at American and European designer stuff go ahead.
A NOTE about shopping,
every shop owner and I mean EVERY (even those who are very nice and
islamic and kind
to you) will try to get every penny (riyaal) from you if they can. For
your first time out
just walk around
and ask for prices of different things until you get a handle of how much
things go
for. (Brothers
please ask your mothers/wives what a good price for gold/gram is before
you try to buy
anything there!)
DO NOT speak English
or any foreign language in stores, just urduor arabic. . They will totally
rip you
off. Even if all
you know is "Kam Hatha" and they know you don't speak Arabic as your native
language
because of your
accent for some reason if you speak English they up the price 200% automatically.
You must bargain
for everything you buy. Everything is marked up as par for the course.
A good trick
is to offer half
then work your way up. Remember to go to many stores to get an idea of
price range.
Sometimes they
will tryto bully you into buying something by grabbing it and stuffing
it into a bag.
Don't let them..
take yourtime, get what you want and check it. If you feel that the guy
is ripping you
off but really
want/need the stuff, buy it anyway because you'll regret it after. Anything
there is
cheaper than anywhere
here. Don't let pride stand in your way :)
DO learn all the
Arabic numbers (1 to 20, and every 5 after that till a hundred and you'll
be set) and
phrases like that
"Kam Hatha?" - How much is that?, "BiKam?" How much?, "Shuayyeh" Move over,
and
"Laa..." No...
Don't tell them
you're from America unless you're window shopping. Don't dress expensively,
shop
keepers there
are extremely sharp. You can even wait a few days until everyone else has
found the
best places to
buy things cheap - find out where they are and THEN save time and just
get what you
want.
SISTERS be careful
about going shopping alone (as in, DON'T) always go with a bro (hate to
say it but
you're safer from
harassment) or with a group of sisters.
DO be careful about
taking pictures and bringing cameras.They don't let cameras into either
of the
Harams and they'll
check your bags too.
DO agree on prices
for cab rides, camel rides and any other service in between beforehand.
A note
about the camel
rides. They will immediately go and take polaroids of you on the camel/horse
and then
force you to buy
them. Tell them beforehand NO PICTURES please. (One guy cursed our group
and
made dua that
Allah never answer our duas b/c someone refused to buy the pics !!)
BEGGARS - There
are beggars everywhere. On the streets of Makkah, at historical sites like
Uhud,
Arafat etc. They'll
even come up to you (to sisters too!) and tell you stories about how they
lost all
their luggage
and possessions and need to get back to Jeddah/Makkah/Madinah. It's hard
to figure out
who is faking
and who isn't. I would suggest deciding on an amount you would like to
give as Sadaqah
beforehandand.
Then give that to a reputable Islamic relief agency or relatives you have
in poor
countries or even
friends/ppl traveling back to their home countries.They would know better
who is
truly in need.
MAKE SURE to go
to Ziyara. Ziyara is visiting the local historical sites in Makkah or Madina.
It's
extremely important
to visit those sites, give your salams to the dead, to really get a feeling
and
understanding
of how Islam began in this place. I would say it should be almost as important
to you as
making sure you
do your Umrah. (But please don't think it's fard or anything else. :))
Don't go there
thinking it's
part of any worship practices. Many people do go to those sites and commit
strange
innovative practices
(you'll see all the Saudi signs in Arabic, English, French, Urdu and Turkish!!
telling
ppl not to). This
is where learning some Seerah (study of the life of Muhammad (saw) and
the early
Muslims) is extremely
important before you go so you can actually feel where you are visiting.
Just
take one day after
fajr and have some cab driver take you out to the different places. Get
a map of
Jannat al-Baqi`
and make sure you say salam to all the sahaba/saliheen buried there. For
both Ziyara's
go immediately
AFTER Fajr at the haram, come back BEFORE dhuhr, pray dhuhr at the haram
and then
rest at the hotel
for awhile.
DO NOT forget what gate you enter the Haram from and the hotel you are staying at.
DO make multiple
Umrahs. It's not hard to take theshort cab ride to TAN'IM sometime after
Fajr. (The
place you'll need
to go to state your intention andre-enter Makkah in Ihram). Make ghusl
and change
into your ihram
before you go. Then at Tan'im you just pray 2 rakats and make your intention
for
umrah again. Comeback
before Dhuhr and perform your second (or third orfourth) umrah... Remember
you can also make
umrah on behalf of another person, a dead relative or someone back home
who
could not make
it.
DO NOT look at
pictures of the Kaaba before you go. From now until you see it with your
own two
eyes It RUINS
the impact it has on your heart.
REMEMBER you are
there to worship. Shopping, eating, etc are all just a waste of time. Food:
it will be
tempting to eat
all this food there, but remember this much: the more you eat, the more
tired you will
get and in Makkah
you will NEED your energy.
Take all this advice
with a grain of salt. Every situation/time is different. Most of the information
here
is suitable for
umrah. Hajj may be a completely different experience!
Some Tips from Br. Khalid:
HOTEL - Choose
one within 5 mins walking distance of Haram if you can. When the crowds
descend it
will take you
20-30 mins to get to the Mosque.
JUMAH - Go EARLY!!!!
Our first Jumah in Makkah the Adhaan was 12:05 or something and we got
to
Masjid Al Haram
at 11am. BIG mistake. The concourse outside the Masjid was full let alone
trying to
get in there.
We sat in the beating sun for over an hour and prayed. The next week we
got there at 9
am !!!
TAWAF - There are
large groups who perform Tawaf together and link hands. If you see them
approach you,
then let them pass or step aside and give them way. Also watch out for
the elderly who
are being carried
around the Kabah and people taking their relatives around in wheelchairs.
As a rule
the nearer the
Kabah you perform your Tawaf the more squashed you will get and I mean
squashed.
This is especially
true when going around Maqam Ibrahim because of the people trying to pray.
ARAFAT - Make the
most of this day as possible. Don't eat too much after Zuhur. The last
thing you
want to do is
feel sleepy from having over eaten
MUZDALIFAH - You
have to pray Fajr on the morning of Eid before you go back to Mina. Make
sure you
make a note of
what time Fajr was when you were in Makkah. Some people make the Adhaan
too early
in an attempt
to get to Mina early. Don't let them make you pray your Fajr before time.
MINA - For those
of you who haven't been there are three Jamarat all in a line with each
other
separated by 200m
or so. The Saudi authorities have created what I can only describe as a
flyover so
that you can perform
your stoning from the above tier as well as the lower tier. There is also
a one
way system on
the top tier so that everyone starts from one end and moves to the other.
Each
Jamarat is surrounded
by a circular wall and it is this circle that your stones have to enter
after you've
thrown. We were
very fortunate enough to be on the side of the mountain and we could see
how the
Hajjis were performing
the stoning. On the top tier most Hajjis walk in a straight line and reach
the
front of the circle,
consequently there is a HUGE crowd at the front of the circle as people
wait for
those in front
to finish. Because of this you should walk at the sides hugging the fence
and avoid the
front entirely.
Walk PAST the Jamarat and then double back on yourself and throw from the
back of
the circle.Alhamdulillah
we were able to place our hands on the circle wall and throw from there
using
this piece of
advice.
SHOPPING - Check out the many bookshops. Lots of good stuff out there
PATIENCE - You'll
understand the meaning of that word when you encounter the crowds, the
queues,
the long waits
etc etc etc